31 Talebian Meditations, Part 2
For an introduction and background to this post, see Part 1 here . Remember, these aphorisms are randomly selected, so it's not about what I think are the most important ones from The Bed of Procrustes . (After I finish the book, I might give an update with my personal favorites. Update 09 Feb: Part 3 is now live.) That being said, let's proceed. *** 11. "Your reputation is harmed the most by what you say to defend it." (p. 11) When Bill Clinton denied having had sexual relations with Monica Lewinsky, he was probably trying to defend his reputation. Of course, it backfired when people found out he lied. Our intuition when faced with a sullying accusation is to try and take control of the situation, but the more we do so, the more people suspect that we have something to hide. Even if we come clean and apologize, the effect on our reputations may not be as we hoped for: studies show that when public figures apologize, some people in the audience are more pron...